Saturday, 19 January 2013

So your crush has a girlfriend... {or just doesn't like you like that}

Holaaaa 
 So many of us girls have crushes (at least I do aha) and some us (me) aren't so lucky with guys. I thought I'd tell y'all about the few tips and tricks i have figured out over the past few years :)

*Speaking from personal experience*
If you still wanna be friends with him


If you guys have an only texting no contact at school relationship
So me and my current crush text, he has a girlfriend, and he knows I like him and I know he has a girlfriend. We don't make it awkward and YOU shouldn't make it awkward either! We're friends and we have normal conversations and its way better then it being awko taco all the time. If the situation IS awkward and you can't fix it,  try just sending him a friendly text saying Hey :) Whats up? or Hey something simple like that, don't seem needy or desperate, that scares guys away.

If you guys have a non-texting only talk at school relationship
This is definitely NOT what I have, but I came up with a few ideas to help you through the situation. This is sometimes a better relationship to have because you can be more upfront and you can KNOW that he got the message and didn't just ignore your text. At lunch ( or if he's in your homeroom) you can go and say Hey  and start a simple conversation just like you would with any of your other friends

Social Media Sites
ex: Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr etc...  It's really up to you, If you're okay with seeing his face and posts, and tweets without feeling sad or angry, then keep on following and stay his friend on fb



If you want to steer clear of any awkwardness and move on and not talk to him


If you guys have an only texting no contact at school relationship
DELETE HIS NUMBER!!! Then you won't feel the need to text him. You'll feel a sudden burst of relief and he'll finally be out of your life (for the most part)

If you guys have a non-texting only talk at school relationship
This may be a little easier to deal with then via texting, He will always be with his friends or girlfriend (most likely) so you won't feel the need (at least not as much) to go up to him and talk to him. slap him, yell at him, whatever you wanna do as much. Also your friends are going to be with you and can help control any urge you have to go up to him and do whatever. BE A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMEN WHO DONT NEED NO MAN :P

Social Media Sites
Unfollow, unfriend. You won't want to deal with constantly hearing what he has to say, or seeing an excessive amount of pictures of him. It will just make you feel worse. 



I hope this helped guys!!!! Remember, if you have any questions email us!! If you wanna talk to us about something thats happening, email us!! We're here for you <3

Love ya :*
Kendal and Mia

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